Date: 2017-11-16 00:04
I m 5 66 and my friend is 5 7 and I know his height bothers him because he uses online dating sites like I do and brings up the topic of height sometimes. He thinks girls only want guys who are 6 5 and taller and he shouldn t have that mindset. I have read that 6 5 is the best height for men on dating sites so I do exaggerate my height by 6 inch to say that I m 6 5. With shoes on I am 6 5 so girls will never notice it.
I would have been up for having another family with the right man but men were too wrapped up in what they wanted and were frankly control freaks. I had surgery a few years ago and closed that window for good after a run of men who were trying to get me pregnant. Big changes with my kids grown and a new career you 8767 d think now would have been a great time to finally meet someone since I had both the time and the room in my life for a new man but what 8767 s happening instead is the same old crap in a different flavour. I 8767 ve accepted now that men see women as a disposable object of low value, their loss, I 8767 ll be focusing on my business now and men, well they know where they can go.
I spoke to a few friends about their experiences with online dating websites. One friend brought up a message where a man had told her that because she was a &lsquo woman of size&rsquo , she &lsquo must suck good ****&rsquo . Another simply sent me this screenshot.
They usually come back with a 8775 Well, I thought, as a dating coach, you 8767 d have some ideas on meeting men. Isn 8767 t that what dating coaching is all about? 8776
I ve never dated a woman that much older, and I m a bit concerned and undecided about the whole idea. And I don t know the age differences between her and her ex s. She is a retired federal employee. I will retire from federal service in two years. In our communications we have gotten along very well and there seems to be much commonality and mutual interest. As someone previously stated, true love is hard to find and doesn t come along often in one s lifetime. I had that with my last girlfriend, and I miss that.
tl dr version:
8775 Real men require face to face contact to be validated by women, and somehow, magically, feeding the beast isn 8767 t feeding the beast if it 8767 s face to face and adrenalin is involved.
Marriage is for suckers and is risky. Casual hookups are the way because somehow, magically, its risks can be overlooked. 8776
I am 89 he is 78. I met him at work while I was married. I left my husband of 65 years and we 8767 ve been together for 8 years. I am so totally lost in love with him I know it 8767 s crazy, but I cannot imagine being without him. Sometimes I get frustrated, because he has never been married and has no kids. I know eventually, he 8767 ll find someone his age and have a family. Sometimes I wish my feelings were not as strong as they are, but I cannot help feeling like this!
In the grand scheme of things if a small percentage of women take a nuclear approach to turning down men well, it s not right, but it s also not hard to see where the seeds of that were sown.
After the attempts at going on a date have hurt (my fault, I know I have to get used to it!) I just don 8767 t bother trying anymore and also feel like it 8767 s less painful to not be rejected and be alone than constant no 8767 s or sorry 8767 s from trying.
While some are gonna read the bitterness here, in between the lines you see the real point. Sometimes you get bombarded by attitude and fantasyland talk and it gets to the point that single men have to detonate the message like a nuke to get everyone to listen, understand, and accept.